Chapter 14 - THE HOUSE I ALMOST SOLD JUST TO PROVE IT WAS MINEI considered selling the house.
Not because I needed money.
Because every doorway reminded me of something.
The kitchen:
Dad.
Daniel.
The porch:
My water breaking.
The office:
Property folders.
The nursery:
A crib Daniel assembled before he died.
I told Margaret.
She said:
“If you want to sell, sell.”
“That’s all?”
“What do you want me to say?”
“I don’t know.”
She smiled.
“Maybe you’re getting too accustomed to attorneys having opinions.”
Fair.
A realtor gave me a valuation.
The house had appreciated substantially.
I could sell.
Buy somewhere smaller.
Start clean.
I almost did.
Then one Saturday I found myself repainting the kitchen.
Not because yellow was ugly.
Because Daniel chose it.
That made me feel guilty.
Then angry at the guilt.
I chose pale green.
Grace sat in a playpen banging two plastic cups together while I rolled paint over the last strip of yellow.
By evening the room looked different.
Not new.
Mine.
That was when I decided not to sell.
At least not yet.
A house could hold damage without belonging to the damage.
Richard learned through my aunt that I was keeping it.
He sent no opinion.
Progress.
A month later he asked whether he could come see the nursery Daniel had prepared.
“No.”
He looked hurt.
“Why?”
“Because I’m not ready for you in the house.”
He nodded.
That was all.
No:
I’m your father.
No:
I paid for part of it.
No:
After everything I’ve done.
Just:
“Okay.”
That response did more for our relationship than any apology.
Then he asked:
“Can I take Grace for a walk with you sometime?”
“With me?”
“Yes.”
“Sure.”
We did.
He pushed the stroller through Hoyt Park while I walked beside him.
No property discussion.
No company.
No Kelsey.
Halfway through, Dad said:
“I keep thinking about the door.”
I knew which one.
“I wish I could say I didn’t recognize myself.”
I looked at him.
“But I did.”
That surprised me.
He continued:
“I’ve always believed when people resist me, I need to push harder because eventually they’ll see I’m right.”
His voice was quiet.
“I did that in business. With Kelsey. With Daniel.”
Then:
“With you.”
I swallowed.
“What are you going to do with that?”
He gave a small, sad smile.
“Apparently keep paying a therapist to ask annoying questions.”
I laughed despite myself.
Grace startled at the sound.
Then laughed too.
It was the first uncomplicated moment I had shared with my father since Daniel died.
I refused to make it mean more than it did.
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One good afternoon.
That was enough.
